Welcome back to our series on promoting communication and language development in infants and toddlers! In this series, we explore various strategies parents can use to support their child's speech and language skills. In our first post, we discussed the importance of observing and following your child's lead. In this second installment, we'll explore the benefits of language modeling and how to incorporate it into your daily routine.
What is Language Modeling?
Language modeling involves talking to your child in ways that help them learn to talk and express their thoughts. It's about using good examples of speech and language at their level to help them understand and use new words in everyday situations. By hearing you speak, your child learns new words and understands how to form sentences.
Why is Language Modeling Important?
Research shows that language modeling significantly contributes to a child's language development. When parents model language, it leads to:
Vocabulary Growth: Children learn more words.
Improved Sentence Structure: They understand how to form correct sentences.
Enhanced Communication Skills: Children develop better conversational skills by listening to and imitating the language used by adults around them.
Key Strategies for Effective Language Modeling
Talk Often
Chat with your child throughout the day about what you're doing, seeing, and feeling. Use different words to describe things around you.
Expand on What They Say
If you're child says a word or short phrase, add 1 to 2 more words to it.
Example: Child: "car" --> you: "Yes, a RED car!"
Use Simple Language
Speak clearly and use words and phrases your child can understand. Repeat these words often to help reinforce learning.
Narrate Daily Activities
Describe what you're doing during everyday tasks like cooking or shopping. This helps your child learn new words and understand routines.
Read Together
Books are a great way to introduce new words and ideas. Don't worry about reading the text word for word. Talk about the pictures or anything that catches your child's interest on the page.
The Importance of Simple and Repetitive Language
Using simple and repetitive language is crucial for young children, especially those with language disorders or developmental delays. Here's why:
Clarity of Understanding:
Simple language ensures that your child can understand what you're saying. Using straightforward words and short sentences helps them grasp the meaning without getting overwhelmed.
Reinforcement Through Repetition:
Repetition helps reinforce new words and concepts.
While typically developing children might need around 20-50 repetitions, children with language delays might need nearly 100 more exposures.
Building Confidence:
When children hear the same words repeatedly, they become more familiar and confident in using them. This encourages them to try speaking and using the words themselves.
Understanding Before Using
Before a child can consistently use a word themselves, they need to understand what it means. This process, known as receptive language development, is the foundation for expressive language. Children first learn to recognize and comprehend words before they can produce them.
Debunking the Myth: Toddlers Aren't Lazy or Stubborn When They Don't Use Words
It's a common misconception that toddlers who do not consistently use words are lazy or stubborn. Children develop speech and language skills at different rates, and learning words is complex. For example, a child might say “milk” one week but not repeat it, or they might imitate “car” but not use it independently. This often means they haven't fully grasped the word or how to use it.
Model Language During Daily Routines
Modeling language during daily routines helps integrate learning into natural settings. Here are some practical ways to do this:
Getting Dressed:
Describe each item of clothing as you put it on. "Let's put on your blue shirt. Now let's zip up your jacket."
Eating:
Talk about the food and utensils. "Here's your spoon. Let's scoop the yogurt. It's yummy!"
Riding in the Car:
Point out and name things you see. "Look there's a big bus. The bus is yellow."
How to Model Words
Keep it Simple:
Use single words or short phrases.
Example: "ball," "car go," "big dog"
A good rule of thumb is to model 1 level above what your child is currently using to communicate.
If your child isn't consistently using any words: model single words
Examples: "milk," "go," "up," "car"
If your child is using single words: model 2-word utterances
Examples: "car goes," "more milk," "go down"
If your child is using 2-word uttearnces: model 3-word utterances
Examples: "a big ball," "cow says moo," "I want book"
Repeat:
Repeat the word several times in context.
Example: "Ball. This is a ball. Red ball"
Show and Tell:
Use the object you are talking about.
Example: "Here's a car. The car is fast. (as you move the car around and make it go fast)"
What Not to Do
Avoid Quizzing:
Don’t ask your child to repeat words or quiz them. This can lead to a stress response and actually cause your child to withdraw and speak less. Keep it FUN!
Avoid Drilling:
Repetitive drilling of words can be tedious and unengaging for children, again keep it fun!
Avoid Long Phrases:
Stick to simple, clear language instead of long sentences.
Avoid Speaking Too Quickly:
Speak slowly to give your child time to understand.
Stay Contextual:
Use words in context rather than randomly.
Real-Life Scenarios
Scenario 1: Cooking Together
Activity: Involve your child in meal preparation.
Language Modeling: Describe each step, "We are cutting the carrots. The carrots are orange. Now we will boil the water."
Expanding Language: If your child says, "Carrot," you can expand by saying, "Yes, orange carrot."
Scenario 2: Playing with Toys
Activity: During playtime with blocks or dolls, talk about what you’re doing.
Language Modeling: "You are building a tall tower with the blocks. The tower is very high."
Expanding Language: If your child says, "Block," you can expand by saying, "Yes, you have a BLUE BLOCK." or "Blue block on (while you put the blue block on the tower)."
Scenario 3: Reading a Book
Activity: Choose a book with colorful pictures and simple text.
Language Modeling: Point to the pictures and describe them, "Look it's a BEAR!" or "It's a BROWN bear." or "The bear is EATING."
Expanding Language: If your child says, "Bear," you can expand by saying, "Yes, a BIG BROWN bear!"
Practical Tips for Everyday Activities
Grocery Shopping: Label and describe the items you are putting in the cart or what your child points at.
Bath Time: Talk about the water, the soap, and the different parts of the body you are washing.
Outdoor Walks: Discuss the different things you see, like trees, cars, and animals, and describe their characteristics.
Conclusion
Language modeling is a powerful way to support your child's communication and language development. By talking often, expanding on your child's words, and providing rich language input during everyday activities, you create a nurturing environment for language learning. Remember, the key is to be consistent, patient, engaging, and fun in your interactions.
Stay tuned for our next post in the series, where we'll explore the strategy of providing choices to further boost your child's language skills.
Call to Action
At RosyTalk, we are dedicated to helping parents support their children's communication development. If you have concerns about your child's speech and language skills or need personalized guidance, contact us a text at 815-587-4452 or email at rose@rosytalk.com. Let's work together to create a joyful and communicative environment for your child.
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